Moving On After An Heart Break.

Moving on from something so valuable, sincere and loving to you is one of the hardest things to do. If it was easy to move on then maybe that wasn't something that you weren't all into, Some guys just don't get it when a girl loves she loves hard so when you call it quits she's not gone leave without a fight. Her love wasn't a game it was something she wanted for awhile. No money, flowers, candy or anything BUT time can cure a heart break. At times it can take years to recover from something so painful. Its not as easy for us girls to move on then it is for you guys. Then to see you with someone else just a couple days or months later really hurts because you start to wonder did he really love/like me? but how if it was so easy for him or her to move on? even if we shouldn't take every relationship seriously but we do, we feel as if we give you the benefit of the doubt so prove that you are not the same. if you are stop saying that you aren't. Moving on is never easy time heals everything so never force yourself to get over someone it will only make you think of them more.. ENJOY!

"MY" Relationship Is My Business

My relationship is my business, Yes so if i don't invite you in it don't invade. HA! i always tell my female friends keep your relationship out of people faces, either they end up wanting him/her, jealous or try to find info from the wrong people to come back and talk all the trash in the world. I love it when people THINK they know what your relationship is about. But if you feel the need to put what you and your spouse are going through on the social networks then your relationship isn't your business anymore its everyone else's. Sometimes you don't even have to let your family or even best friend know whats going on with you and yours, all they will end up doing is judging. Having others in you relationship only ruins it, If there is a situation talk to him/her about it, you don't need 10million people knowing whats going on because at the end of the day people gone call people and the story you told will change then it will stir up to something big. The best relationship is the one no one knows about, it will last longer. they know ya'll together but don't know whats going on, on the inside. so keep your relationship your business! ENJOY!

Life Isn't Always Peaches And Creams

Life isn't always easy, God does things to test our intelligence and to see if we will make better decisions for ourselves. Sometimes we may think the best decisions are the best but sometimes it isn't. We see the rich kids and we say i wish i had it like them but what do they really have the material things or true happiness? some of us may see these people with all types of stuff but they aren't truly happy. Their parents are just buying their love or shopping is how they get over whatever it is they are going through. Sometimes i'll see the unfortunate on t.v or just around and they will make fun out of anything because they are just grateful for having just what they have, they never complain or anything. I remember if i couldn't get my hair done i would cry... YES really lol. I was sorta kind spoiled so I wanted everything handed to me. But all that had to stop when i had my pride and joy Samareya J Saintil. Life isn't about what you have or what you can get. Life is what you make it and I say make the best of it because its very short. We all need to make better decisions for ourselves so we wouldn't have to suffer or struggle in the future. Life doesnt always have to be hard, just be smarter and ponder longer before any decision. ENJOY!

Friends With Benefits..

What do most of you guys feel about this little title? when you are someones slida, bust it baby etc.. some of us think we can handle being someones FRIENDS with benefits. This means NO strings attach, NO future relationship, not even calling each other on a regular. Most fail at this because feelings get involved i mean to be real honest the girls get attached more then a guy ever would. Ladies i feel like why sleep with someone that don't even see a future with you? I know some of us been there but its time for a change, its time for him to understand if we are going to be friends that's it and nothing more. Every time and it never fails a homeboy can never be a homeboy for long because its either he wants to sleep with you or be with you and vise versa. For me I've dealt with this just like maybe every girl in the world but we all handle things differently, we have different opinions on things that an other girl would look at you crazy lol. Lets do things differently ladies, don't be ok when he calls you every 2 OR 3weeks at 2 or 3am saying he wants to come see you. You are worth way more than a booty call, see yourself as silver and gold a body filled with pearls. Never mind him you don't need him if your not a queen in his eyes. ENJOY!

Live Life. Yea 3X:Chris Brown

Have You Ever?

Have you ever dated that one person that you can't seem to get out your system? i mean you feel like sheesh its been a few years or months why can't i seem to shake this guy or girl? You went on dates you've been in different relationship but its nothing like being with "THAT" person. Some of us are guilty of this but i think it only means that's the only person your heart desires and wants. Friends looking at you crazy,  i mean EVERYTHING reminds you of that particular person. You remember ever single last thing y'all been through. This happens to a few of us. Love is love especially true love, when you have no doubt that you might end up with this person in the future. Its OK to feel this way honestly. And if you feel like you want to get this person out of your system stop dating people like him or her, step out the box and meet people that aren't your type get it? Get a feel of something NEW, don't be afraid or panic because its something that you are not use to. In life we take risks everyday, so its OK to take risks with your heart. 9/10 you will find something that will make you happy. ENJOY!

Sorry For The Wait..

Hey lovies, sorry for not posting for the last 5days. I was really busy arranging my mothers funeral. That was the biggest wake up call for  me ya'll, I didn't know how to feel or even know how to act. Someone you thought that was going to be in your life forever happen to be gone???? that is something hard to swallow. Like I would tell everyone God is using the strength my mother had on me. I'm not saying i'm taking it lightly but its motivating me to continue to make her proud of me. Life will never be the same for me and my family but she would want us to continue to do the things she use to do and "WE" will. Guys cherish your loved ones and appreciate all that God gives you. ENJOY!

I Over Love This Song!!!!

So You Think You Know How To Love A Woman?

Guys? you always seem to think you know what a woman wants and need when we don't even want to much, all we want is for you to be there. Comfort her, love her and just be there and be honest to her. But now a days something so simple is to much to ask for. Some of us ask for a lot and some of us just don't care we just want to be loved the right way. Guys feels as if it gives them cool points just to be an ass or an dog "player" when really they can be losing out on a great girl. While were hurt and tryna figure out whats wrong with us and wondering why he's an ass he's out moving on already lol. I'm not speaking about all guys there are some great guys out there but we tend to brush them to the side because something about that bad guy brings us closer to them. Sometimes i say we set ourselves up to get hurt but we really can't help who we like or fall in love with sometimes. A womans love is one of the greatest, strongest and sincere. When we love we love hard, but so i heard a man loves differently from a woman but i also know when a guy falls in love there is no turning back. What we really want is your full attention, honesty and love guys nothing more. So give a little more and stop expecting us to be ok with the games and lies. Enjoy!

Smile-Kirk Franklin

This song means so much.. God is working so don't give up lovies! ENJOY!

A Taste Of Encouragement, You Can Do It.

Waking up happy knowing this day will be a good day. looking forward to all the great things God has in store for you and I. Waking up angry and upset is no good you only making things worse on yourself. There is so much to be blessed for. Some of us may think our life sucks when there is someone out there struggling but happy at the same time, because thats how much they appreciate life itself. God gives us each day we see a chance to do something with our lives. There is no excuse or time in the world to be slack. **i realized that** you can do whatever it is you wanna do just put you heart, mind and soul into it and believe you can conquer anything you put your mind to. With consistancy you will make it a long way. so never doubt yourself or give up. you can do it.! ENJOY!

Its Ok To Be You.

In life we let our pride control us, that we have to be "different" at all times. We put up this image that we want to seem perfect at times but realize, NOONE is perfect. we are made with plenty flaws and that determines who is really with us during our bad, sad, scary, funny and crazy moments. One thing is i never tried to be perfect i always say i want to be me no matter who i'm around. Some people try to have a different personailty around different crowds but i see that as not knowing who you really want to be. If people don't love you for you then you don't need them for nothing. It feels so good being around people that know you in and out and will never judge you but will only help you and give you the best advice they can. You should never feel uncomfortable around peope you know and the people that "know you". It's refreshing knowing you can just kick back and talk about nonsense with the people you love and been down with for years. Life is what you make it, so make the best of it and enjoy with the people that enjoy it with you.. ENJOY!

Family..

Family is,
heaven sent from our father above,
bonded by the power of love.
No matter what family has each others back,
when push comes to shove.

Family is,
understanding, never demanding,
all for one and one for all,
I will never leave you alone standing.

Family is,
one in itself, my love is your love,
your pain is my pain, my wealth is your wealth,
I promise to never leave you by yourself.

Family is,
the strongest team, the strongest unit;
if love could be visualized,
family would be the blue print.

Family is,
forgiveness and patience,
it's sweeter than the sweetest fragrance,
the power of family is a reflection of Gods compassion and magnificence.

Family is,
never turning our back, and never shames,
lend my helping hand and not a finger pointing the blame.

No matter what a family bond can never be broken,
even through a nuclear explosion,
if one of us lives we all live.
Forever to eternity, we are family.