Moving On After An Heart Break.

Moving on from something so valuable, sincere and loving to you is one of the hardest things to do. If it was easy to move on then maybe that wasn't something that you weren't all into, Some guys just don't get it when a girl loves she loves hard so when you call it quits she's not gone leave without a fight. Her love wasn't a game it was something she wanted for awhile. No money, flowers, candy or anything BUT time can cure a heart break. At times it can take years to recover from something so painful. Its not as easy for us girls to move on then it is for you guys. Then to see you with someone else just a couple days or months later really hurts because you start to wonder did he really love/like me? but how if it was so easy for him or her to move on? even if we shouldn't take every relationship seriously but we do, we feel as if we give you the benefit of the doubt so prove that you are not the same. if you are stop saying that you aren't. Moving on is never easy time heals everything so never force yourself to get over someone it will only make you think of them more.. ENJOY!

"MY" Relationship Is My Business

My relationship is my business, Yes so if i don't invite you in it don't invade. HA! i always tell my female friends keep your relationship out of people faces, either they end up wanting him/her, jealous or try to find info from the wrong people to come back and talk all the trash in the world. I love it when people THINK they know what your relationship is about. But if you feel the need to put what you and your spouse are going through on the social networks then your relationship isn't your business anymore its everyone else's. Sometimes you don't even have to let your family or even best friend know whats going on with you and yours, all they will end up doing is judging. Having others in you relationship only ruins it, If there is a situation talk to him/her about it, you don't need 10million people knowing whats going on because at the end of the day people gone call people and the story you told will change then it will stir up to something big. The best relationship is the one no one knows about, it will last longer. they know ya'll together but don't know whats going on, on the inside. so keep your relationship your business! ENJOY!

Life Isn't Always Peaches And Creams

Life isn't always easy, God does things to test our intelligence and to see if we will make better decisions for ourselves. Sometimes we may think the best decisions are the best but sometimes it isn't. We see the rich kids and we say i wish i had it like them but what do they really have the material things or true happiness? some of us may see these people with all types of stuff but they aren't truly happy. Their parents are just buying their love or shopping is how they get over whatever it is they are going through. Sometimes i'll see the unfortunate on t.v or just around and they will make fun out of anything because they are just grateful for having just what they have, they never complain or anything. I remember if i couldn't get my hair done i would cry... YES really lol. I was sorta kind spoiled so I wanted everything handed to me. But all that had to stop when i had my pride and joy Samareya J Saintil. Life isn't about what you have or what you can get. Life is what you make it and I say make the best of it because its very short. We all need to make better decisions for ourselves so we wouldn't have to suffer or struggle in the future. Life doesnt always have to be hard, just be smarter and ponder longer before any decision. ENJOY!

Friends With Benefits..

What do most of you guys feel about this little title? when you are someones slida, bust it baby etc.. some of us think we can handle being someones FRIENDS with benefits. This means NO strings attach, NO future relationship, not even calling each other on a regular. Most fail at this because feelings get involved i mean to be real honest the girls get attached more then a guy ever would. Ladies i feel like why sleep with someone that don't even see a future with you? I know some of us been there but its time for a change, its time for him to understand if we are going to be friends that's it and nothing more. Every time and it never fails a homeboy can never be a homeboy for long because its either he wants to sleep with you or be with you and vise versa. For me I've dealt with this just like maybe every girl in the world but we all handle things differently, we have different opinions on things that an other girl would look at you crazy lol. Lets do things differently ladies, don't be ok when he calls you every 2 OR 3weeks at 2 or 3am saying he wants to come see you. You are worth way more than a booty call, see yourself as silver and gold a body filled with pearls. Never mind him you don't need him if your not a queen in his eyes. ENJOY!

Live Life. Yea 3X:Chris Brown

Have You Ever?

Have you ever dated that one person that you can't seem to get out your system? i mean you feel like sheesh its been a few years or months why can't i seem to shake this guy or girl? You went on dates you've been in different relationship but its nothing like being with "THAT" person. Some of us are guilty of this but i think it only means that's the only person your heart desires and wants. Friends looking at you crazy,  i mean EVERYTHING reminds you of that particular person. You remember ever single last thing y'all been through. This happens to a few of us. Love is love especially true love, when you have no doubt that you might end up with this person in the future. Its OK to feel this way honestly. And if you feel like you want to get this person out of your system stop dating people like him or her, step out the box and meet people that aren't your type get it? Get a feel of something NEW, don't be afraid or panic because its something that you are not use to. In life we take risks everyday, so its OK to take risks with your heart. 9/10 you will find something that will make you happy. ENJOY!

Sorry For The Wait..

Hey lovies, sorry for not posting for the last 5days. I was really busy arranging my mothers funeral. That was the biggest wake up call for  me ya'll, I didn't know how to feel or even know how to act. Someone you thought that was going to be in your life forever happen to be gone???? that is something hard to swallow. Like I would tell everyone God is using the strength my mother had on me. I'm not saying i'm taking it lightly but its motivating me to continue to make her proud of me. Life will never be the same for me and my family but she would want us to continue to do the things she use to do and "WE" will. Guys cherish your loved ones and appreciate all that God gives you. ENJOY!